Domestic violence survivor Simone O’Brien to share her inspiring story
Published on 31 October 2024
Wimmera anti-domestic violence advocate Simone O’Brien will speak at events in Stawell and St Arnaud on Friday next week in the lead-up to an annual campaign calling for the prevention and elimination of violence against women and girls.
Ms O’Brien survived a horrific attack at the hands of an ex-partner in 2012 and has gone on to use her personal story of determination, resilience and courage to help others in similar situations seek support.
Ms O’Brien said before 2012, she was oblivious to domestic violence and the ‘red flags’ associated with it.
“I learned the hard way and now I want to make sure no women or children will experience what me and my kids did ever again,” she said.
“I want to raise awareness of domestic violence and give strength to victims to get out of violent relationships. I want to help people see the red flags and provide them with the information they need to protect themselves and seek help if required.”
Northern Grampians Shire Council family violence prevention project officer Sandy Bevan and Thrive 50-plus Healthy Ageing Hubs team will host the events at St Arnaud Community Meeting Room at 2pm and Stawell Library at 7pm.
The events are free of charge and are supported by Western Victoria Primary Health Network and Grampians Community Health.
Council chief executive Brent McAlister said the statistics were sobering.
“On average, one woman a week is murdered by her current or former partner,” he said.
“Intimate partner violence is the greatest health risk factor for women aged 25 to 44. It’s a common factor in child protection notifications and results in a police call-out on average once every two minutes across the country.
“More than two-thirds of mothers who had children in their care when they experienced violence from their previous partner said their children had seen or heard the violence.
“Family violence is an epidemic and we all need to play a role in helping prevent it.”
Mr McAlister congratulated Ms Bevan on her efforts to drive the organisation’s commitment to eliminating violence against women and children.
He encouraged the community to participate in council events aimed at preventing family violence, starting with the talks from Ms O’Brien.
“She is a remarkable woman who has been through more than any person should ever have to bear. Not only did she survive, but she is using all the tools at her disposal to help ensure other women and children get the support they need,” he said.
Council staff will also host Walk Against Family Violence events in St Arnaud on November 28 and Stawell on December 5.
“By joining a walk you can take action to prevent family violence and violence against women, and stand in solidarity with victim-survivors,” Mr McAlister said.
The walks coincide with the international 16 Days of Activism against Gender-Based Violence campaign.
The campaign runs from November 25, the International Day for the Elimination of Violence against Women, until December 10, Human Rights Day.
More information about the walks will be available on the council’s website and Facebook page.
People can call (03) 5358 8700 to book the St Arnaud event, which includes afternoon tea, or Stawell Library on (03) 5358 1274 to book the Stawell event, which includes supper.
If you or someone you know needs help, call 1800 RESPECT on 1800737 732 or text 0458 737 732. In an emergency, call 000.